Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Your "Sole" Mate

So, after talking about relationships, I decided to make a metaphor about shoes... I know this may sound silly (I just woke up so don't judge me) I hate that everyone complains about not finding someone. First, have some patience! Maybe that's not what is supposed to happen in your life! Calm down, forget about searching and someone will come along. It takes time!
Anyways, back to the metaphor. So this is WAY cheesed up, but believe me it makes sense. Think about shoes. Some people like certain types of shoes and only wear them. Others have their favorite types. Think about it. You know someone who only wears their TOMS or only wears flip-flops, or loves their one pair of shoes. Some people like multiple types of shoes or have more than one favorite. Some people even dislike wearing shoes! (that's me) Now you have an idea of how much shoes are important  let me tell you how they relate to relationships. Each of us have a pair of shoes that we love, or a style of shoes that we love. This is like that "right" person we all look for and talk about. We have worn shoes our entire life. Some people find the type of shoes they love and want to wear the rest of their life early. Some people find them later. Some people don't ever find them. Life was not meant for us to be equal. It was not made for everyone to have the same experiences. It's okay that you haven't found "the one" yet. It's okay that you're getting your heart broken. Cheer up! The right person is out there for you. The important thing is that you are trying on different types of shoes to find the one you like the best. Your "Sole" mate is out there, so keep on looking. You'll find them!

No one likes a frowny face, change it to a smile (you get more dates if you smile)

3 comments:

  1. Soooo... What if our favorite shoes are too expensive? Haha. :)

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  2. What if your favorite shoes don't like you??

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  3. @ Kira... then it's like longing for someone you can never have (not because they don't like you but just because they cannot be in a relationship with you, or you cannot be in one with them) Normal... we all have one (or more) pairs that are too expensive.

    @Myles: You are sitting next to me....
    if they don't like you back, they obviously aren't the right pair, so go find a new one that does fit! This new pair may be closer than you think! :)

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